Saturday, January 18, 2014

Hotwifing Lifestyle

Hotwifing is a less-well known subculture within nonmonogamy, although the number of those who ascribe to the lifestyle seems to be great. David Ley’s Insatiable Wives offers some empirical support for the size of the community, and the array of relationships within it.

A “hotwife” refers to a woman in a partnered couple who has sexual encounters with other men. The dynamic usually looks like this: The husband/primary male partner is highly turned on by his wife’s/female partner’s sexual escapades, and derives pleasure and arousal from her exercising her sexual autonomy and from the image/thought/knowledge of another man having sex with her.

Tuesday, November 12, 2013

What is cuckold?

The present day version on the cuckold experience is a husband and a wife that want to have a third person come into the marriage to please the woman.  The woman is the person who feels that her husband is not pleasing her enough sexually so, she must gain that pleasure from another man with a larger penis. 

The other man is there to please his wife because he is not able to do the job with his small penis, or he has performance issues.  In many scenarios the husband will be forced to watch his wife get pleasure from a man while he is in the room, as an added bonus he can be in a chastity belt for her ultimate control over his orgasm.  In some instances, he may be spanked, humiliated and forced to "clean up" after the job is done.
Again this is a fetish that the man has and the wife that he is married too will participate in.  The facts are that cuckolding can be very stimulating for a husband and a wife, but for the most part is initiated by the husband.  

Saturday, November 2, 2013

How to tell my wife that I want to be in a Cuckold!!

Men's and couples who come to me for advice on cuckolding in their marriage.  The husband is usually the one who wants to get the wife involved but he does not know how to go about telling her.  Once in a while I will counsel a couple who wants to explore the cuckolding together. Typically though, the man is wanting his wife to try the cuckolding but does not know how to approach her. 

Cuckolds involves another man in the marriage that the husband wants his wife to have sex with in front of him.  The husband derives much satisfaction from watching his wife get f-cked by another man and the man typically will have a larger than average size penis.  Another aspect about cuckolding, is the husband needing to be shamed by his wife, and one way is for her to compere penis size and let her husband know that his penis is just to small to please her.
Other forms of shaming can go along with the cuckolding as well depending on the scope of the cuckolding session.  Some men like to be tied to a chair and forced to watch, and not allowed to touch themselves while the scenario is being played out in front of them.  Sometimes a wife will place a cock cage or chastity belt on the husband so that he is not able to masturbate.  A wife may also spank her husband as a form of deeper humiliation and domination...
The point of the article and what I tell my male clients is that most wives if married for a time are not going to be willing to partake in the cuckolding lifestyle, some women may be more open to it than others, but the majority will not.  Husbands have asked me about having a man waiting in the room for his wife as a surprise….the answer is "no" not a good idea.….What I will advise my male clients who are into the whole cuckolding fantasy is that they need to tell their wives slowly and see what her reaction is.  

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Wednesday, October 30, 2013

Why be a Bull to a Cuckold Couple?

http://www.learntocuckold.comSometimes I'm asked what I like about being a Bull with a cuckold couple.  That is not an easy question to answer, but I’ll try. 

I’m a dominant person, and always have been. I like being the one in charge. So I naturally tend to find myself at the top of the food chain in every situation.

When I’m with a couple there are several elements that appeal to me, which make the relationship more appealing than the traditional boyfriend & girlfriend.

First, a married woman is in it for the sex. Her motivations are not unlike ours (men).  She is not looking for a relationship (she has one). She is not looking for drama (she wants none). She will not hound you or stalk you or pester you like many single women.

With a married woman it’s all about the sex. When you meet with her (or them) there will be little small talk, socializing or wasting time. Sex is on her mind, and it’s everyone's goal. Once her and your sexual cravings are satisfied she will go back home, with or to her husband. It’s perfect for someone like me who enjoys frequent, explosive sex with someone who is only too willing to provide it.

So, my first answer is sex, sex and more sex.

But there are other sides to it, too. Believe it or not I like helping other couples spice things up. I know Bulls are often painted as selfish, cock-wielding studs that are interested only in themselves, but that’s not usually the case. I, and others like me, enjoy interacting with couples and helping them reignite their flame in the bedroom.

Like I mentioned, I am dominant and I enjoy the domination theme. It’s empowering to have a woman offer herself to me, especially when it’s a beautiful married woman who would normally be off-limits to anyone except her husband.

Say what you want, but there is something edgy about hitting a pussy that was promised to someone else, especially when the wife is a stone cold fox, and someone you would NEVER suspect of being a submissive slut for another man behind closed doors.

Last, I love being dominant over a couple in the husband's presence. There’s something deeply satisfying when I see a husband silently watch me ravage his wife in their marital bed, knowing that he’s getting off on the whole show.

Most husbands I know are not submissive. However they do become extremely passive when I assert myself in their presence. Not only does this appeal to me, but I enjoy the wife’s reaction as well. The more passive the husband is the more sexually responsive the wife becomes, and that leads to even better sex.
Once you have taken the time to build a good cuckold relationship with the right couple the encounters can become intense, fulfilling and practically addictive.

What man would not want that?

Wednesday, October 2, 2013

Cuckoldress by Accident

I am a cuckoldress because my husband makes me one. I am a cuckoldress because my husband sexuality stems from being submissive, being humiliated, used and “cheated on”. CH is admirable true to himself. He knows what he likes and what he wants and he lives authentically. He likes, he needs, to be cuckolded and he married someone who likes, needs, to have sex with other people. Win-Win situation right?
Except it can be frustrating to meet someone I can’t wait to knock boots with and then have to include CH. I have to adapt my extracurricular sex life to this new lifestyle. Even if it’s just in small ways (pun intended) like locking him up before I go out or telling him about it when I get back.

This also is why I am a cuckoldress. I would be fucking other men regardless if CH accepted it or not.  When I do it generally has nothing to do with my marriage. Just me. I am gloriously selfish and demanding when it comes to my sex.  This is where CH is truly cuckolded, is he not?

I am finally coming to terms with my place in this kink. I began this relationship knowing that my husband was kinky and an amazing fuck. We did everything; spankings, bondage, strap-on, wrestling, flogging etc. I knew I could count on him to work me over if I needed it. Now, well, now he’s locked up when we go out which is ironic because he usually has the most beautiful cock in the room. Oh, the lost cause lol.......

So now I’m a cuckoldress not just because my husband is a self-identified cuckold, not just because I sleep around regardless of his feelings but also by choice.

Coming to terms with this lifestyle has been trying at times but nowhere as near as difficult as trying to find a “bull” that I actually feel comfortable with. The search continues though, wish me luck!

Cuckold Experience

There are many ways to make love to your wife and be denied sexual intercourse. I’m not talking the usual pussy licking either. Nor am I talking about all the selfish cuckold sex acts like ruined orgasm or strap on sex on him or the humiliation of fucking a blow up doll with your wife and bull watching. All good fun things to do but doesn’t do much for her in the orgasm and intimacy department.

For relationships to last there needs to be loving intimacy. That intimacy needs to be shared between you in the only way the two of you make that happen. It can’t simply be re-created with another person or porn. Intimacy isn’t a turnkey event to get YOU off. It’s a shared experience with pronounced volleys of give and take like a hot sweaty game of tennis were both players are hitting every shot.

The last time we made love it started out with tender kisses. We were in a private sauna, our bodies hot and glistening and tender kisses soon turned into devouring love bites all over each other. My hands were all over her as were hers on mine purposely avoiding my hard penis.

My hands cascade down onto her. She’s so wet that two fingers easily slide in. My mind knows that this is because she has been having a lot of sex with other men, (reality? I’m not sure) I get harder still, my penis waving in mid air untouched. I go down on her and she likes this but pulls me back up so we are face to face with my fingers sliding back in her.

This time all fingers slide in and soon she is thrusting for more. A quick addition of lube and my entire fist slides in. I am fucking her with my fist while suckling her breasts, her hands on the back of my head gently holding me there.

Let’s step outside of this for a moment and take a look at what’s happening. I am fucking my wife and my wife is being fucked by me in a full and satisfying way. We are doing it a way that contains loving and caring intimacy that only we know about in each other. Think about it. So what if it’s not my cock entering her. What if my cock was the size of my wrist? Some men are.

Back to the scene…
Jumping a head about half an hour after using my fist like a mock strap on, pretending to be that man with the hand sized cock; Doing it doggy style with one hand holding her thigh like he would and giving both of us  a beautiful, loving experience, she finally came.

Now I am so hard. Knowing she preferred my fist to my cock is mind blowing. Knowing we know that we both like this intimate and loving. She volleys her intimacy and continues the love making. She pulls me on top of her, reaches her lubed hand down to my cock that is down near her sore and swollen pussy. Then ever so slowly, pushed my bare bottom with her other hand gently allowing my cock to fuck her stationary hand that is ever so loosely wrapped around my solid cock.

We kiss deeply. I pump her hand like a mad man – like a cuckold husband – I come.
Now as we lay in a hot sweaty heap on the floor I realize that this is cuckold sex people don’t write about. There was no big black man or a cage in the corner of the room. There wasn’t even a pair of panties. It was us.

Wednesday, December 19, 2012

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